House Cleaning Guide that isn't FlyLady?

My fiance and I are living together. He's tidier than I am and it's starting to be a source of conflict. I am hunting around looking for guides and prompts to cleaning without a lot of stress. I work a full time job and a part time job, and I don't have much time. FlyLady is the sort of thing I'm looking for but it is waaay too chirpy-cutesy. Can anyone suggest something good for two working partners who don't have much time and want to make cleaning less painful?

Answers:
Try the Sidetracked Home Executives. You can probably find the book in your local library. It's written by two women who were slobs but then saw the light and got organized. It isn't just for cleaning. They have you organize your life. It's ok if you like that sort of thing. I think you should just be yourself. If your fiance doesn't like it then maybe you two need a chat...

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