Who should do which chores around the house? which is fair...?
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Set up a to-do-board. One of those write and wipe white boards. Each week set up chores for each of you. Discuss and compromise on who does what and who is responsible for what. Make sure the chores are done...not sure of your ages, in order for things to be done right and shared...you have to come up with a plan to make things work out and no one is doing more than the other. Best bet is a Chore Board....or to do board...discuss options and how to step up to the plate and be responsible for the assigned and shared chores. Hope you can come to an understanding...
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It's rough sharing the chores. Are you able to talk to her about this? She needs to know that you feel like her Cinderella! Been there done that. Let her know her limit. Just remember she's paying the bills so there is a roof over your head.
It's rough sharing the chores. Are you able to talk to her about this? She needs to know that you feel like her Cinderella! Been there done that. Let her know her limit. Just remember she's paying the bills so there is a roof over your head.
you, she has a child in her responsibility, dont be jealous! you don't have to wake up in the middle of the night to take care of the kiddo
all females clean,it dose'nt matter who does what.
What you described tells me your sister is burned out. Do you pay rent? If you don't pay her any rent or utilities or food then I think she is getting the raw end of the deal and she is just plain tired with the repsonisibilities she has. She's a great sister so... Get a part time job and hire a maid if it makes you that crazy.
i say split the chores evenly and take the harder ones and switch every week with her...but make sure you both have equal of the hard jobs as well as easy. but switch them around...that way it won't get frustrating or boring too.
well for one thing you should stay out of her room. in all relationships people have to work together or it won't work at all.
I think that she should maybe clean the bathroom about once a week. She does the bills which is a big part.
It sounds like you have a split, but you prefer things neater than her. Does she nag you to do your things? Do you feel like nagging her to do hers more often? It sounds like you wish she would clean the bathroom more. Consider switching your set of chores for hers, how would you feel then? Try it for a while, if it seems good to you. Her own room is her business, even if you swap the rest.
My kids ask me this question all the time. It seems everyone wants things to be fair. My suggestion is that everyone try to make things pleasant. This means that if you see something that needs to be done, you do it. It sounds like she already has a lot going on with a child and the financial responsibility for you as well as her own family. It may be that she sees the need for a cleaner space but doesn't have the time or energy to do more. So, if you see an opportunity to contribute to the welfare of the home, whether by doing a load of laundry or cleaning the bathroom, then do it. If you hate housework, consider hiring a once -a- week housekeeper and paying for it yourself. You will make both you lives better.
You don't pay bills, huh. You have to earn your keep somehow. Go scrub those toilets.
She pays the Bills? Does she give you an allowance to? You should be doing ALL of the household chores.. When she gets home from work, you should have dinner, on the table to..Are you a youngster, or are you able to work, outside of the home?
we girls do eveything what do the boyz do play games.seat aroud and the tv