when my wife asking me she has not leave with a family.and my mother told me i leave with my family.What i do?
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According to what I have heard, when you marry, you are no longer in the family of your parents. You and your wife become partners in a whole new family.
Your Mother should have a lot less influence on what you do.
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can you repharse, or explain? I do not understand question.
can you repharse, or explain? I do not understand question.
Do you mean "live" instead of "leave"?
Either way.I don't get it
As far as i understood. Your wife doesn't want to live and get along with your family and it seems to me you are having an eastern origins where it is a custom and rite to bring your wife into your parent's house and she has to become a daughter and be at your parent's disposal.I see there is nothing bad of it..But it is not practical for the western originated people. And the most thing they are concerned about is PRIVACY that you can't afford it by living with your folks. So if you want to reach and achieve a compromises between you and your beloved one..Then you surely have to go for the tenancy and get your own space, in order to have an enough time, rest and opportunity to arrange your own household and get on with your lives...
If your MOM loves you she will understand and that's the mother's mission to wish all the best for the sake of her own children...The only woman that the hostess of the every man's heart is A MOTHER. You can get a wedlock as many times as you can afford and desire..But you have just ONE MOTHER..So value it and decide if you are not a "hen-picked one". It is my opinion and didn't mean to confuse you..I guess you are grown up enough to take a further steps in order to resolve this all peacefully and managing "to get out of the water dry" Good Luck.
Your wife just has difference of opinions (maybe because of her background or upbringing) with your parents, hence she doesn't listen/do what your parents asks of her (house chores or other duties) & because your parents feel you take your wifes' side, they tell you to live with your family (you & your wife etc.).
In my opinion you should ask your wife to be more compassionate & understanding towards your old parents, as day by day they are not becoming any younger and they rely on you, their SON.
They have brought/raised you with great hardships & expections. They expect you will take care of them in their old age.
Don't Let THEM Down. Otherwise, you will ALWAYS feel SORRY for yourself, when they are no more.