should i do this guy so he'll like me better?
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As a guy I'll recieve a lot of crap for this but here goes.
No. You should have sex because you want to have sex, not to impress someone. If you do it to get his attention, it'll likely make you look cheap and shallow to him. You don't want that. If you ever want a worth while relationship, you should wait until you're ready. The other thing you need to do is understand that he's not the ONLY guy that likes you. He's the ONLY guy thet YOU CAN SEE that likes you. Also, if he won't go out with you because you're not outgoing and sexual, then maybe he's not the kind of guy you want to date anyway.
From the tone of you're righting it sounds like you need to get some self esteem issues worked out alone before you really start dating seriously.
You can't truly love someone, until you love yourself.
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If he will only go out with you if have have sex he is obviously not in it for the right reasons and does not want you for what you are. Just wait, you will find people in life that will want you for you, not for what you can offer them sexually.
If he will only go out with you if have have sex he is obviously not in it for the right reasons and does not want you for what you are. Just wait, you will find people in life that will want you for you, not for what you can offer them sexually.
Don't do it. You'll regreat. Wait for someone who thinks your great.
Never have sex with someone if you are not ready. There are so many risks at hand! If he truly likes you, he will respect that you don't want to have sex. I'm sorry but he sounds very very shallow and unworthy of a true woman.
Why yes. We don't have nearly enough crack-addicted absentee mothers constantly in and out of relationships in the U.S. By all means, become another one.
No. If he really likes and respects you, he would not be putting you into such emotional upset. Do not give in so easy. Hang in there. If he cares about you, it will make no difference to him.
its not worth it.definitely not
Do what you think is right. You shouldn't have to sleep with someone just to get them to like you.
if he really like you he will go out with you even without sex... if he wont go out without sex well dump him... find someone else... but be patient they dont just come in right away just wait ok?
First off, if this guy is dependent on your sexual activity as a standard of his romantic (and his own sexual) activity, he's clearly not a man of exceptional character, and you clearly deserve more. If he's the only guy that likes you, try to find out why the rest of your town doesn't. I'm sure that if you work hard enough, more people will like you, maybe even authentically love you (and not in the way that family members or relatives would).
But, should you decide to pursue him anyway...
Don't make the mistake of thinking that sex is the only way to increase his favor of you. He should be attracted to your personality, and similar things. If he likes your friends because they're all the same, couldn't you try to get him to like you because you're different? Don't see it as "the exception" or "the black sheep"; see it as "variety" and "something fresh and different". It's all in the positive spin. I'm SURE that you could at least get him to be more interested.
I wouldn't reccomend you pursue him, but it's up to you to decide whether or not you do so.
yeah you should do it. it will be fun anyway.
You say you cant stop thinking about him, im guessing one of the reasons your so crazy about him is because he is playing a game of hard to get. everybody loves a challenge, its exciting. so heres what you do..dont give in to him sexually, not only will you get used but it will take the fun out of the "game". challenge him girl, act like your not interested, but then lead him on, just a little. dont be insecure, dont be weak, but on the same hand, dont come off as too strong. tell yourself over and over, "i am the hottest girl here" "he cant do better than me" and beleive me, its probably all true. you need to keep him interested in you, make HIM want more, if u give in sexually i guarentee he will want nothing to do with you after your 20 minute roll in the bed. when and if you finally have sex, act cool about it, act like it was no big deal, act as if you are a pro and i guareentee he will be begging for more. just remeber to be true to yourself, but my advice is a recipe for driving men wild--it takes a little attitude, lots of confidence, a good amount of coyness, a dash of sassy, a dash of arrogance, but the most important part you must know that YOU ARE THE BEST, HE CANT DO BETTER THAN YOU, AND EVERYONE WANTS YOU. Good luck.
no way. the pervert doesnt deserve you.
No, don't do it! If you do It for the wrong reasons you will regret it !
hey this guy is an shallow A hole, kick him to the curb, NEVER HAVE SEX TO KEEP OR GET A MAN!
You answered your own question... "his other EX-girlfriends..." Putting out WILL NOT keep him interested! He's a loser. Tell him to scram.