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Not a strange issue at all. My brother did the same to my mother and my father passed away suddenly one day while drinking his morning coffee. My mother has been ill for years with lupus and then a stroke two and a half years ago. I took my mother in after her stroke even tho she needed constant 24 hour a day care. We had visiting nurses and OT people at the house all the time. Two and a half years later, she is still pretty much dependent upon me but I have gained so much from our time together. I say follow your heart and do what you feel is best. It is all any of us can do. *hugs*
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Your brother has no right to ask you to evacuate your home. Either to convence him or go to court.
Your brother has no right to ask you to evacuate your home. Either to convence him or go to court.
I am sorry to hear about your situation, especially for the premature loss of your father, that cannot be easy.
That said, your brother has a right to ask you to vacate (I assume it is his and his wife's house, not the family's), but this does not have to happen immediately. I suggest you draft up a plan with your brother which includes a timetable, a serious look at your and the family's finances, and especially discuss what you think is the best plan for your mother. It is never an easy decision to take steps toward placing your mother in a home, but that is sometimes what is called for.
In regard to your living situation, delineate what it is you earn and what you would need to be able to move out reasonably. Perhaps you can show how after some finite period of time you can save up enough to make such a move reasonable. It may also be the case that you need to take active steps to increase your earnings.
It is important that you make it clear that you have an interest in making decisions on behalf of the family and especially your mother. Perhaps a home is not the answer for her and perhaps you can provide the kind of care that she needs.
Best wishes and good luck.
You did not mentions that whose is that. Is it your brothers house or your dad left it. It that house belongs to you dad then your mother has a full claim on the house and nobody can ask her to leave actually she can ask your brother to leave.
If your brother owns the house then he has right to evict you and your mother.