every one is saying that my boyfriend is cheating on me but he says he is not who should I belive?
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I suspect if it is really "everyone", then you should believe everyone.
The wronged person is usually the last to know.
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I would say if you trust him believe him. And depending on how old he is and other type of stuff. you should call Dr. Laura.
I would say if you trust him believe him. And depending on how old he is and other type of stuff. you should call Dr. Laura.
tell them to prove it.
Trust what he say's because he is your boyfriend. But if you still hear roomers that he is cheatin talk to him. But believe him, you never kno someone can be jelouse!
I'm a firm believer in innocent until proven guilty. If people are saying your boyfriend is cheating, ask them who he is cheating with and when and where did they see him with someone else. Unless anyone can provide some rock-solid proof, give him the benefit of the doubt.
First of all, your question is miscategorized so you could get reported by someone. To answer your question, if the sources are reliable and can provide credible evidence then I would confront your BF with it. Most men are cheaters and play around. Thats just a fact.
investigate it, if he says he will be one place send a good friend to see... or tell him you are going somewhere, but don't go and instead watch him....if you have doubt follow your heart.
You ain't ask the right people the right questions. Ask everyone how they know. Who? Where? When?
Then ask your bf why they would say things like that if it isn't true.
Eventually, you have to decide whom to believe. Good Luck
better to prove it by yourself!!
If everybody is saying he's cheating on you, ask for proof. Of course, your boyfriend will not admit to anything without something concrete..........
Sometimes friends lie to each other about boyfriends cheating because they may be jealous or hurt that you are spending more time with him than with them.
Sometimes they are telling you the truth and you don't want to hear it.
Ask the people who are saying these things, get them to give names, places, dates and times. If they are telling the truth they will give you the information, if they are lying, they won't be able to prove it.
And sometimes boyfriends lie if they are cheating on you, think about it, if you were cheating on him, and wanted to stay with him, would you admit it? Good Luck.
Nobody!!!
Get your own clues or leave it alone. You are asking for unsolicited trouble.
If you have your own (real) clues, then start a conversation with him. Do not get emotional and give (him) your relationship the benefit of the doubt.
Don't lose your Honey(relationship), based on he-say she-say stuff.
A song said it best "Believe half of what you see, and none of what your hear!" (I heard it though the Grapevine. By Marvin Gaye)
Good Luck,
Brian J.
P. S. No one is qualified to report on YOUR relationship. Do you want Him to listen to stories about you!
belive him, and be done with it.
u know the old saying "dont believe anything u hear and only half of what u see" that might apply here. try to be calm , but most of all,be observant. im not saying spy, try first to believe him, but just cause u dont think he'll cheat doesn't mean u have to be blind either. just watch , silently,covertly ,give yourself time, if something is wrong you'll feel it.
well if he says tht he isnt than tht shud b sufficient for now....
also ask those others to giv u some "concrete" proof if any
remember never believe sumthin until u hav verified it
especially if it has got to do with someone else....
also ask urself the same question...do u think he can do sumthin like this?(ofcourse u shud knw him well enf for tht)
i hope tht "everyone" else is wrong n tht ur BF is right.....
i hope true love wins!!
Well, if EVERYONE is saying it, there may be credibility. However, you may want some proof. But if I were you, I'd believe others before him. But it really depends, does everyone involve like 20 people?