my friend (married), is in her mother-in-laws house. Should she go out and live separately with her hubby?
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shouldn't they have thought of this before getting married? doesn't sound like the maturity level is there to be starting a life together if they can't take care of themselves. whatever they do...don't have a baby. learn to take care of themselves first!
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Independence or luxury ? Independence. Definitely. Whats luxury if you dont have peace of mind?
Independence or luxury ? Independence. Definitely. Whats luxury if you dont have peace of mind?
She should move out to have some privacy and some great time with partner. They shouldn't be held back by inlaws
Every situation has some +ives as well as -ives. While living with inlaws u might face some issues pertaining to space, decorum, privacy etc as well as interference in your private affairs.
However living independently w ur hubby will hv its own pitfalls - u need 2 manage every stuff . no1 2 gv u any advice when needed, medical care, depression etc n the cost shoot up when u live on its own.
SOLUTION - Simple either work out a system wherein a balance is made between expectations & limitations or else live alone !
No one can frankly answer ur Q unless n until u sit alone & check our pros n cons. I m sure this will gv u a reply. Plz do not make any single instance as a reason to move out. This will happen in every relationship so y blame the inlaws ...
Cheers ... God Bless
if she cant stand it anymore and if they both (she & her hubby) agree to go out. If they can live independently, i think she should start working so she can support herself and her future kids
Come on out!!
If at all possible, they should be on their own. Not because they cant get along with mom-in-law, but so that they can continue to get along. No matter how much you like or love someone, living under a roof with them can be stressful. If he's kinda a mommas boy, it can make it worse.