what do ldo about a neighbour, who lives in the flat above me, thet continuosly harress me?
Answers:
the easiest thing to say would be move but I understand that may not be feasible so...
contact the authorities
Other answers:
Get a tape recorder and call the cops.
Get a tape recorder and call the cops.
MOVE !
Have the authorities set up tape recorders for evidence.
call the police and file a writen complaint and have all the neighbors sign it,
Yes indeed. What about the property manager? Can they not do anything? And the police?
Write a letter to the person who you pay the rent to. Let THEM know what is going on. Also get anyone else in the apartment complex who has been having problems with your neighbor to sign the letter. There is power in numbers. Then hope for the best.
I've found that the best thing to do in these situations is just to move. You may feel at first that your neighbour wins but actually you win by becoming free of the trouble he causes you. You'll eventually find a community of people that you enjoy being a part of and who enjoy you too. He'll still be stuck in the same place with new neighbours that hate him.
unless the upstairs neighbor is your landlord/lady, contact them or the property owners/managers, let them know what is going on, document the occurences, and if that doesnt work, invite the manager/owner over to see for themselves first hand, but dont let the upstairs neighbor know any of this.
make official compliant with the police and get the authority to tape-record the noise.You can start from there.